WATANZANIA WAISHIO MIKOANI WAPIGWA MARUFUKU KWENDA DAR WAKATI WA ZIARA YA RAIS OBAMA....!!

Waziri wa Mambo ya Nje, Bernard Membe amewashauri watu walioko mikoani kusitisha safari za kuja Dar es Salaam wakati wa ziara ya Rais wa Marekani, Barrack Obama kutokana na wingi wa wageni katika jiji hilo.

Ugeni huo pamoja na ule wa viongozi kumi na moja kutoka nchi mbalimbali duniani watakaohudhuria mkutano wa kimataifa wa Smart Partnership utakaofunguliwa kesho na Rais Jakaya Kikwete kwenye Ukumbi wa Mikutano wa Kimataifa wa Julius Nyerere, umesababisha kuimarishwa kwa ulinzi katika maeneo mbalimbali hasa katika hoteli za kitalii ambazo zimeanza utaratibu wa upekuzi kwa wageni wake.

Akizungumza na katika mahojiano na Redio ya Clouds jana, Membe alisema jiji limefurika kwa wingi wa wageni.

 

“Hoteli na nyumba za wageni zimefurika wageni na magari mengi yamekodiwa. Kwa ujumla, huduma za kijamii zitakuwa shida,” alisema.

 

Rais Obama na mkewe Michelle watawasili nchini Jumatatu na tayari wapambe na maofisa usalama kutokana Marekani wameanza kuwasili. Mbali ya ujio huo, wake wa marais kutoka nchi 14 za Afrika watakaokutana na Laura Bush, mke wa Rais wa zamani wa Marekani, George Bush. Pia Michelle atahudhuria mkutano huo utakaofanyika Jumanne na Jumatano ijayo.

“Jiji la Dar es Salaam litakuwa na mambo mengi kwa hiyo wale wenye kuja kutaka kustarehe wafute safari zao,” alisema na kuongeza: “Kama kuna watu ambao hawapo Dar es Salaam na hawana sababu za kuja mjini waache tu mpaka wageni watakapoondoka kwa sababu jiji la litakuwa limejaa na baadhi ya barabara zitachukuliwa zitumike na wageni hao.”

 

Alisema katika kipindi cha siku tano zijazo, baadhi ya barabara za Jiji la Dar es Salaam zitakuwa na shughuli nyingi na nyingine zitalazimika kufungwa. Barabara itakayofungwa ni pamoja na ile ya Mwai Kibaki na ile ya Bagamoyo itakuwa na shughuli nyingi pia wakati Michelle atakapokwenda Jumba la Makumbusho, Jumanne ijayo.

Wasafiri wa mikoani

Wasafiri wa mikoani wataathirika zaidi Jumanne ijayo wakati Rais Obama atakapokwenda kutembelea mitambo ya kufua umeme ya Kampuni ya Symbion Ubungo.

 

Kituo hicho kipo Barabara ya Morogoro, ambayo ndiyo inayotumiwa na magari yanayoingia na kutoka mikoani.

Rais Obama atakwenda katika kituo hicho yapata saa 4.00 asubuhi na kwa kiasi kikubwa itaathiri magari ya usafirishaji wa mizigo na abiria yatakayokuwa yanatoka na kuingia Dar es Salaam kabla na wakati huo.

OBAMA ASABABISHA OMBAOMBA KUHAMISHWA JIJINI DAR..Angalia PICHA WAKIAMISHWA

 

KAMA UONAVYO KATIKA PICHA HIVI NDIVYO OMBAOMBA WAKIHAMISHWA MAENEO MBALIMBALI YA JIJINI.

DAR KUPISHA UJIO WA RAIS OBAMA

MASHIRIKA,WANAFUNZI WAPINGA ZIARA YA OBAMA AFRIKA KUSINI

Huku Rais Barack Obama wa Marekani akiwa amewasili nchini Senegal hii leo katika duru yake ya kwanza ya safari barani Afrika, safari yake hiyo inakabiliwa na upinzani mkubwa huko Afrika Kusini ambayo itakuwa nchi ya pili kuitembelea kabla ya kuelekea Tanzania.
Duru zinaarifu kuwa idadi kubwa ya mashirika ya wafanyakazi, wanafunzi wa vyuo vikuu, mawakili na watetezi wa haki za binaadamu wanapinga vikali safari ya Rais Obama nchini humo. Muungano wa Jumuiya za Wafanya Kazi Afrika Kusini COSATU umewataka wafanyakazi nchini humo kufanya maandamano ya kupinga safari hiyo. Katibu wa masuala ya kimataifa wa COSATU, Bongani Masuku amesema kuwa, siasa za Marekani zimejikita zaidi katika kuzalisha na kukithirisha silaha za nyuklia na kusambaza silaha ulimwenguni, jambo ambalo linavuruga amani, uadilifu, demokrasia na haki za binadamu.
Jumuiya ya Mawakili wa Kiislamu nchini Afrika Kusini imetaka Rais Barack Obama wa Marekani atiwe mbaroni kwa kutenda jinai za kivita. Jumuiya hiyo ya mawakili imetaka Obama afikishwe kwenye Mahakama ya Kimataifa ya Jinai, (ICC) huko, The Hague, Uholanzi. Makundi ya kisiasa nchini Afrika Kusini yameitaja Marekani kuwa mporaji wa maliasili na utajiri wa nchi za Kiafrika.

EXCLUSIVE PICTURES::TAZAMA JINSI DIAMOND ALIVYOPOKELEWA NCHINI COMORO

Awali ya yote ningependa kutanguliza shukrani kwa mwenyezi Mungu aliyeniwezesha mimi na team yangu nzima ya wasafi kusafiri na kufika salama visiwani Comoro,lakin pia siwezi acha kuwashukuru mashabiki wangu wa kweli kwa dua wanazoendelea kuniombea..tulifika Comoro mapema jioni na kupokelewa na umati wa watu waliokuwa an hamu ya kumwona mtoto wa kitanzania nikitua nchini mwao
  hizi ni baadhi ya picha za matukio jinsi wana Comoro walivyonipokea

Ukweli ni mara yangu ya kwanza kufika Comoro na
 nilifurahishwa na ukarimu wa watu hawa na jinsi
walivyonipokea vyema..kweli Africa yote ni ndugu wa baba mmoja

Baadaya kutoka Airport nilifanyiwa mahojiano
na kituo cha televisheni cha nchini Comoro

Huyu ndo MWANAFUNZI WA UDSM KITIVO CHA SHERIA ALIYEPIGWA RISASI NA MAJAMBAZI

ALEX ROBERT AKIWA KATIKA POZI WAKATI WA MAPUMZIKO.

WANAFUNZI WA CHUO HICHO MWAKA WA NNE PAMOJA NA MKUU WA KITOVO CHA SHERIA PROFESA BONAVENTURE RUTINWA WAKIMWOMBEA MWENZAO AENDELEE KUWA SALAMA NA UPASUAJI HUO UFANYIKE VIZURI KATIKA HOSPITALI YA MUHIMBILI DAR ES SALAAM JUNI 21.

WANAFUNZI WA CHUO HICHO MWAKA WA NNE WAKIONESHA MSHIKAMANO WAKISUBIRI MWENZAO ALEX ROBERT AKIWA THIETA WAKATI WA OPERESHENI KATIKA HOSPITAL YA TAIFA MUHIMBILI .

ALEX ROBERT KULIA AKIWA NA RAFIKI ZAKE

ALEX ROBERT

SHOW YA MIAKA 13 YA KIKOSI CHA MIZINGA NI BALAA TAZAMA JINSI ILIVYOKUWA

                                             Gossip cop na washkaji @msasani club

                                                        songa akiwakwa steji akifanya yake

                             mashabiki waki enjoy show ya miaka 13 ya kikosi cha mizinga

                                                       Tabla akifanya yake kwa steji

                          Mashuati kwenye stage wakionyesha ujuzi wa karate raha kwelii

                                      Haya sasa Man 2 Man battle nichane nikupasue

                             Ohhh usiogope jamaa hapigwiiii ila ni mizuka ya battle man 2 man.

BOB JUNIOR APEWA KIPIGO KIKALI KARIAKOO BAADA YA KUIBA....NI KATIKA UTENGENEZAJI WA VIDEO YAKE MPYA YA KIMBIJI

MSANII MAARUFU WA BONGO FLEVA BOB JUNIOR AMEONYESHA KUDHAMIRIA KUWEZA KUTOA VIDEO KALI YA NYIMBO YAKE BAADA YA KUAMUO KUONYESHA VITENDO ZAIDI KWA KWENDA KARIAKOO NA KUFANYA VIDEO HAPO.

Huyu ndo MCHUNGAJI ALIYZAA NA HAUSIGELI WA MIAKA 17 HUKO KIMARA....AVULIWA UCHUNGAJI, MKEWE AOMBA TALAKA..

HAYA ni madai mazito! Mchungaji wa Kanisa la Kiroho la Kijito cha Utakaso au Healing Centre International lililopo Kimara-Mwisho, Dar, Thomas Mariki anadaiwa kuvuliwa kofia ya uchungaji baada ya kutuhumiwa kuzaa na ‘hausigeli’ wake, Sessy Mwambashi.

Akizungumza nasi Jumamosi kwa masikitiko, mke wa ndoa wa Mariki, Joyce Thomas Mariki alidai kuwa yeye na mchungaji huyo walioana mwaka 2004 katika Kanisa la Kiinjili la Kilutheri Tanzania (KKKT) Usharika wa Lungai Mwika, Moshi.
Alisema walijaliwa kupata watoto watatu lakini mmoja hakuwa bahati.

MATESO YAANZA
Mwanamke huyo alidai amani katika ndoa yake ilipotea baada ya kujifungua mtoto wa pili (marehemu), mumewe alianza kumtuhumu kuwa alitoka nje ya ndoa na huyo mtoto hakuwa wake.
Aliendelea kudai kuwa, mtoto alipofikisha mwaka mmoja na miezi nane, walishauriana watafute hausigeli ili mama huyo afanye biashara ya kuwaongezea kipato.
Mama mchungaji alisema alimpata Sessy akiwa na miaka 15, mkazi wa Mbozi, Mkoa wa Mbeya.
Alisema yeye alianza biashara ya genge maeneo ya Kimara-Mwisho ambapo alikuwa akiwahi sokoni saa 11:00 alfajiri na kumwacha msichana huyo akiendelea na kazi za nyumbani.

VISA VYAANZA
Mama mchungaji aliendelea kudai: Baada ya miezi michache, mchungaji alibadilika tabia, alikuwa mkali, wakati mwingine alinifuata sokoni na kunipiga akinishutumu nina uhusiano na wanaume ndiyo maana nachelewa kurudi nyumbani.

MUMEWE AMFICHULIA SIRI
Akadai: “Siku moja mchungaji alinifichulia siri kuwa hausigeli wetu ni mjamzito na mimba ilikuwa yake hivyo akataka iwe siri kati yetu watatu.”
Mama Mariki alisema alikubaliana na mumewe ambapo alivumilia kwa kipindi kirefu lakini uzalendo ulimshinda baada ya msichana huyo kuwa na tabia ya kuwatesa watoto huku akisema aachwe kwani ni mjamzito.

MKE NAYE AFICHUA SIRI
Alisema kuwa baada ya kuona mumewe anamjali zaidi hausigeli kuliko yeye na watoto aliamua kwenda kutoa siri kwa wasimamizi wa ndoa, wakaitwa na kusuluhishwa ambapo waliamua kuwa msichana huyo arudishwe nyumbani kwao Mbeya jambo ambalo mtumishi huyo wa Mungu alilitekeleza, yeye mwenyewe alimrudisha msichana huyo kwao.

NDOA YATIBUKA
Mwanamke huyo alidai mumewe huyo aliporudi Dar, alianza visa akisema kuwa hausigeli alikuwa akimpa ‘mambo’ kuliko yeye ambaye amezeeka huku vitisho na vipigo vikiongezeka maradufu!
“Wasimamizi wa ndoa walituita kwa mara nyingine wakatusuluhisha lakini tulipofika nyumbani, mateso yakawa palepale ndipo wasimamizi waliponiambia nirudi kwa wazazi wangu kwani ni aibu kubwa kwa mtumishi wa Mungu kufanya vile,” alisema na kuongeza:
“Kweli nilirudi kwetu Moshi, wazazi wangu walimpigia simu mume wangu kuhusu matatizo yetu, lakini aliwajibu hanitaki na ataniletea talaka nyumbani.”
Alisema miezi mitatu baadaye, wasimamizi wa ndoa walimtaka arudi Dar kwa ajili ya kujua hatima ya ndoa yake.
Aliambatana na kaka yake hadi nyumbani kwa mumewe, cha ajabu walimkuta hausigeli akiwa na mtoto mchanga. Aliwazuia kuingia ndani akidai hawakuwa na mamlaka hayo.
Alisema kaka yake alimtaka hausigeli ampigie simu mchungaji amwambie shemeji yake anamhitaji, alifanya hivyo na mchungaji alifika lakini alipowaona alitoka nduki.

WAZEE WA KANISA WAINGILIA KATI
Aliendelea kudai kuwa ulifika wakati wazee wa kanisa waliingilia kati, wakamuweka mchungaji kikao na kumuuliza kulikoni hawamuoni mke nyumbani badala yake  msichana wa kazi tena akiwa na kichanga.
“Cha kushangaza mchungaji alipandwa na hasira, akawafanyia fujo wazee hao, alimpiga na kiti mzee mmoja ambaye alikuwa msaidizi wake anayeitwa Kisaka na kumjeruhi,” alisema mama mchungaji.
Alisema sakata la kujeruhiwa kwa Kisaka liliripotiwa katika Kituo cha Polisi Mbezi Kwayusuf na kufunguliwa jalada namba KMR/RB/2125/2013- SHAMBULIO LA KUDHURU MWILI.

AVULIWA UCHUNGAJI
Alisema katika kikao hicho, wazee hao walifikia uamuzi wa kumvua rasmi uchungaji kwa kumwandikia barua na kumkabidhi.
Mchungaji aliipokea barua hiyo lakini hadi sasa anaendelea na huduma kwani wapo waumini wachache walio upande wake huku wengine wakidaiwa kulikimbia kanisa hilo.

BOFYA HAPA UMSIKIE MCHUNGAJI
Baada ya kuzinyaka habari hizo, Juni 18, mwaka huu, mapaparazi wetu walimtafuta Mchungaji Mariki na kufanikiwa kumkuta nyumbani kwake Kimara-Mwisho ambapo alikuwa na haya ya kusema:
“Siwezi kuzungumzia lolote kuhusu habari alizosema mke wangu kwa sababu suala hili lipo kwenye Baraza la Usuluhishi wa Ndoa na lipo kwa maandishi, naweza kuwaambia kuwa kuna watu wanataka kunipindua, wanapanga hila na njama ili walichukue kanisa na ndiyo wanamtumia mke wangu lakini hawawezi, wameshindwa.
“Kuhusu kuzaa na hausigeli wangu ni kweli na mtoto ana miezi saba sasa, lakini hizo shutuma kwamba alikuwa na miaka 15 siyo kweli, alikuwa na miaka 17 na sasa ana miaka hiyohiyo.”

HAUSIGELI VIPI?
Risasi Jumamosi lilizungumza pia na hausigeli ambaye anaishi na mchungaji huyo kwa sasa kama mke ambapo alikuwa na haya ya kusema:
“Anayesema nilikuwa na miaka 15 ana ushahidi? Wanaoweza kujua umri wangu ni wazazi wangu na ukweli ni kwamba mwezi wa kumi mwaka huu natimiza miaka kumi na nane.
“Kuhusu kwamba nilikuja kufanya nini Dar, nilikuja kwa mume wangu mwenye ushahidi kuwa nilimfukukuza mke wake alipokuja nyumbani aniletee.”
Hata hivyo, Risasi Jumamosi linaendelea kufuatilia sakata hili ili kukujuza nini hatima yake.

SOURCE: RISASI JUMAMOSI

KICHAPO KWA WAPIGA NONDO CHATANDA MJINI IRINGA OPARATION KALI KUWASAKA WALIPO

Huyu ni miongoni mwa wapiga nondo katika mkoa wa IRINGA akipokea kichapo kikali huku akiwa chini ya ulinzi mkali kuelekea kituo cha polisi, jamaa huyu anayefahamika kwa jina la MASTER, Amekamatwa mara tuu baada ya mwenzake kukamatwa leo hii asubuhi akidaiwa naye kuhusika na uharifu huo. hii imetokea mara tuu baada ya matukio ya namna hiyo kulipotiwa mara kwa mara siku za karibuni

                        
 Baadhi ya wananchi mkoani IRINGA wakiwa na hasira na kutembeza kichapo kwa muharifu huyo kwakua wamechoshwa na matukio hayo yaliyokisiri sana koani IRINGA

 

        
   Mtuhumiwa akiwa katika hali ngumu maana wananchi wana hasira sana na watu wa namna hiyo kuwafanyia unyama kwa kuwapiga nondo na kuwapora mali zao

 Wananchi wakiwa hawaogopi askari na wakiendelea kumpa kichapo mharifu huyo uku safari ya kuelekea kituoni ikiendelea

        
 Watu wakiwa wengi kusaka na kuwakabidhi watuhumiwa hao mikononi mwa polisi

     
Wananchi wakishangaa kilichojili  mjinin IRINGA

WASANII WETU WALIOTANGULIA MBELE YA HAKI KWA FOLENI DUUH MAJONZI SN!!

 R.I.P LANGA KILEO TUTAKUKUMBUKA DAIMA MILELE R.I.P NGWEA TUTAKUKUMBUKA DAIMA MILELE

R.I.P KASH TUTAKUKUMBUKA DAIMA MILELE

 

 

 Yaani the way hawa ndg zetu walivyo tuacha ilikuwa kama wameitwa kuingia ahela, yaaani inatisha na inatia huzuni sana kuona jamaa ambaye tulikuwa naye jana, juzi na hata leo masaa machache yaliyo pita eti hatupo tena naye kalala jumla daaah! But ukweli ni kwamba sali kabla hujasaliwa kwani hatujui saa wala wakati wa kuiaga Dunia na viumbe wengine waliokujua au unaojuana nao! 

Wenginehudiriki hata kuandika wosia, wengine kutunga nyimbo juu ya kufa kwao, Wengine na wengne juu ya vingine basi nawe ni wakati wako kaa mkao wa kwenda usingoje usilolijua kungoja! Nawapenda sana wote tuombeane meema!

 

 

Wabunge Chadema wasimulia mkong’oto Soma hapa Ilikuaje

Mbunge wa Singida Mashariki,Tundu Lissu akiwaonyesha waandishi wa habari miwani yake aliyodai kuvunjiwa na polisi. Lissu alipata dhamana katika Kituo Kikuu cha Polisi cha Kati, jijini Arusha jana baada ya kukamatwa juzi. Picha na Moses Mashalla 

Arusha/Dar es Salaam. Wabunge wanne wa Chadema, ambao waliachiwa na polisi kwa dhamana wamesimulia mateso waliyoyapata wakiwa rumande baada ya kukamatwa juzi.

Vigogo hao; Mbunge wa Mpanda Mjini Said Amour Arfi, Tundu Lissu (Singida Mashariki), Mustapha Akunaay (Mbulu) na Joyce Mukya (Viti maalumu), walikamatwa juzi baada ya wao na wafuasi wa chama hicho kutawanywa kwa mabomu ya machozi na polisi kwenye Viwanja vya Soweto, Arusha.

Wabunge hao waliachiwa baada ya kujidhamini wenyewe huku watu wengine 65 waliokamatwa pamoja nao wakiachiwa baada ya kudhaminiwa.

Wote wanatakiwa kuripoti kwenye kituo hicho Julai 22, mwaka huu na wataelezwa hatma ya suala hilo.

Akizungumza na waandishi wa habari jana, Mkuu wa Operesheni wa Polisi, Kamishna Paul Chagonja alisema jeshi lake linaendelea kuwasaka Mwenyekiti wa Taifa wa Chadema, Freeman Mbowe na Mbunge wa Arusha, Godbless Lema na kuwaonya kuwa wanatakiwa kujisalimisha mara moja.

Chagonja alisema Mbowe na Lema wanatafutwa kwa kosa la kufanya kusanyiko lisilo halali katika viwanja hivyo vya Soweto walipokuwa wakitaka kuomboleza vifo vya watu watatu; Judith Moshi, Ramadhan Juma na Amir Ally waliofariki dunia baada ya kuumizwa kutokana na mlipuko wa bomu, Jumamosi iliyopita.

Pia aliwaamuru Mbowe na Lema kuwasilisha mara moja ushahidi wa kuwahusisha polisi na shambulio la bomu na kama hawana imani na Polisi, basi wawasilishe ushahidi wao kwa Rais Jakaya Kikwete.

Lissu

Lissu, ambaye pia ni Mnadhimu Mkuu wa Kambi Rasmi ya Upinzani Bungeni, alilalamikia kitendo cha polisi kumwagia maji ya kuwasha baada ya kumkamata.

“Walinimwagia maji ya kuwasha kwa mfululizo nikalazimika kulala chini kifudifudi huku nikiwa nimefunika macho kukwepa yasiingie maji. “Kuna askari walitaka kunipiga lakini niliokolewa na mwenzao mmoja aliyenikinga nisishambuliwe. Kwa kweli ilikuwa hali ya hatari,” alisema.

Alisema polisi hao waliomkamata walivunja miwani yake kwa makusudi akisema aliikabidhi kaunta ikiwa haijavunjika.

“Wakati naingia mahabusu nilikabidhi miwani yangu lakini ajabu wakati tukiachiwa ilikuwa imevunjika.” Alilalamikia hatua ya polisi kuwashambulia kwa mabomu, kuwamwagia maji ya kuwasha walipokuwa wakiwatawanya watu waliokusanyika Soweto akisema awali, waliwaruhusu.

source Gazeti la mwanainchi

MAHAKAMA YA HAKIMU MKAZI KISUTU YAMWACHIA HURU, IDDY SIMBA JIJINI DAR ES SALAAM.

 

 

Idd Simba 

HATIMAYE Mahakama ya Hakimu Mkazi Kisutu Dar es Salaam, hivi punde imemwachiria huru Mwenyekiti wa Bodi ya Shirika la Usafiri Dar es Salaam (UDA), Idd Simba, Mkurugenzi wa Bodi hiyo ambaye alikuwa Diwani wa Kata Sinza (CCM), Salum Mwaking’inda, Meneja Mkuu wa shirika hilo Victor Milanzi na Mkurugenzi wa Kampuni ya Simon Group , Simon Kisena waliokuwa wakikabiliwa na kesi ya uhujumu uchumi wa shirika hilo kwa sababu Mkurugenzi wa Mashitaka (DPP), Dk.Eliezer Feleshi kuwasilisha hati ya kutokuwa na haja ya kuendelea kuwashitaki washitakiwa hao chini ya kifungu cha 91(1) cha Sheria ya Mwenendo wa Makosa ya Jinai ya mwaka 2002. 

Simba anayetetewa na wakili maarufu nchini Alex Mgongolwa walifikishwa na mahakamani hapo kwa mara ya kwanza Mei 27 mwaka jana wakikabiliwa na makosa ya kula njama,matumizi mabaya ya madaraka na kughushi na hujumu uchumi. 

Hivyo kuanzia sasa washitakiwa hao wapo huru

RIBERY NA BENZEMA WATINGA KIZIMBANI JANA, NI LILE SAKATA LA KULALA NA KAHABA CHINI YA MIAKA 18!!

Na Baraka Mpenja kwa msaada wa Sportsmail.com

LILE SAKATA ambalo lilianza Mwaka 2010 kuwasakama Wachezaji Nyota wa France, Karim Benzema na Franck Ribery, sasa Kesi yake imeenza rasmi Mahakamani Mjini Paris Siku ya jana e wakituhumiwa kumlipa ‘Changudoa’ alie chini ya Umri halali kisheria ili kufanya nae ngono katika Miaka ya 2008 na 2009.

Benzema na Ribery wanatuhumiwa kumlipa Bibi Zahia Dehar, ambae sasa ana Miaka 21 na ambae alizaliwa Nchini Algeria, kufanya nae Ngono wakati akiwa chini ya Umri halali kisheria huko Nchini France.

Huko France, kulipia Ngono kwa Machangudoa si kosa ila kosa ni kufanya kitendo hicho kwa Mtu ambae yuko chini ya Umri halali wa kuwa Changudoa ambao ni Miaka 18.

Hata hivyo yapo mambo ya utata kuhusu Kesi hii ambayo itaanza kusikilizwa Jumanne bila kuwepo Benzema na Ribery Mahakamani kwani Waendesha Mashitaka walimuomba Jaji aifute lakini Jaji akagomea ombi hilo.

Kwa Mfumo wa Kisheria wa France, Waendesha Mashitaka, wanaoiwakilisha Nchi, hufungua uchunguzi na kuteua Jaji atakaeundesha na kadri uchunguzi unavyoendelea Waendesha Mashitaka wanaweza kumuomba Jaji kufuta uchunguzi lakini Jaji anayo haki ya kuamua kuendelea na kuamua Kesi iende Mahakamani.

Waendesha Mashitaka walitaka Kesi hiyo kufutwa baada ya kugundua Benzema na Ribery hawakujua kuwa Zahia Dehar yupo chini ya Umri halali.

Wakati Ribery amekiri kutembea na Binti huyo lakini amedai hakujua kuwa yupo chini ya Umri wa Miaka 18 na pia ni Changudoa.

Mwanasheria wa Ribery, Carlo-Alberto Brusa, ameeleza: “Kwa Sheria za France, sio kosa kufanya mapenzi na Mwanamke na hata kumlipa lakini inakatazwa kufanya hivyo kwa alie chini ya Umri halali! Mwanamke huyu alikuwa akizunguka Ulaya na Ndege utajuaje kwamba ni mdogo?”

Benzema amekataa kabisa kuwa na uhusiano wowote na Zahia Dehar.

Inatarajiwa hukumu ya Kesi itatolewa hapo Juni 26 na ikiwa Wachezaji hao watapatikana na hatia wanaweza kufungwa Miaka mitatu na kupigwa Fani Euro 45,000 kila mmoja.

Mwanasheria akifika mahakamani: Alberto Carlo Brusa, mwanasheria wa nyota wa Bayern Munich,Franck Ribery akifika mahakamani leo jijini  Paris nchini Ufaransa

Kahaba Zahia Dehar alianza kazi yake akiwa chini ya umri wa miaka 18 na kuwaponza Ribery na Benzema

Zahia Dehar amesema hakuwaambia wateja wake kuwa ana umri wa miaka 18

Ribery amesema hakujua kama Zahia Dehar alikuwa kahaba wala kama ana miaka chini ya 18

Benzema amekataa kabisa kuwa na uhusiano wowote na Zahia Dehar.

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UKWELI KUHUSU MAMA ALIYEKAA JUU YA PAA AKIZUIA NYUMBA YAKE KUUZWA HUKO MBEZI JIJINI DSM

WIKI iliyopita kuliibuka sakata zito lililochukua nafasi kwenye vyombo vya habari na mitandao ya kijamii, lililomuhusisha mama mmoja aliyejulikana kwa jina la Hezelina Mrema mkazi wa Mbezi Beach, eneo la Tangi Bovu jijini Dar es Salaam, kuamua kuishi juu ya paa la iliyodaiwa kuwa ni nyumba yake.

Hatua hiyo ilisababisha baadhi ya wanaharakati kujitokeza na kuahidi kumsaidia mama huyo, aliyedai kuwa anataka kutolewa kwa nguvu ndani ya nyumba yake halali, ambayo ameijenga na mumewe Samwel Opulukwa.

UKWELI WA MAMBO

Ukweli juu ya suala hilo ni kwamba Hezelina hahusiki kwa namna yeyote na nyumba hiyo, ambayo ni ghorofa moja, kwani imebainika kuwa si mke halali wa Opulukwa na badala yake wana mahusiano ya kimapenzi.

Imebainika kuwa mke halali wa Opurukwa alisha achana nae na mke wake huyo tayari alishaweka pingamizi Mahakamani la kutaka hati ya nyumba hiyo isibadilishwe mmiliki.

Mbali ya Hazelina kutokuwa mke halali wa Opulukwa pia imebainika kwamba mwanaume huyo aliitumia nyumba hiyo kuweka dhamana ya mkopo kwenye benki ya TIB.

Imebainika kuwa hatua ya Opulukwa kuweka nyumba yake dhamana ilikuja baada ya rafiki yake ambaye ni mmiliki wa kampuni ya Asasu Express Ltd kuhitaji fedha za kuendeshea bishara yake, lakini alikumbana na kikwazo cha kutakiwa kuwa na nyumba jijini Dar es Salaam, ambapo kwa kuwa hakuwa nayo aliona amtumie rafiki yake huyo kufanikisha mkopo wake kwa makubaliano kuwa ataulipa bila tatizo.

Hata hivyo mmiliki huyo wa kampuni ya Asasu alishindwa kulipa mkopo huo wa mamilioni ya fedha, ambapo benki husika ilianza harakati za kutaifisha mali zake ili kufidia deni hilo, hata hivyo hazikutosha na ndipo walipoamua kuiuza nyumba hiyo ya Mbezi Beach iliyopo kiwanja namba 235 Block D.

Imeelezwa kuwa benki ya TIB ilimpa Opulukwa taarifa zote za deni husika pamoja na kumpa Notisi ya kumtaka alipe deni husika ambalo ni 274,854, 256. 84 kutokana na rafiki yake kushindwa kulipa deni husika pamoja na mali zake kutaifishwa.

Ili kufuata taratibu za kisheria za kutaifisha nyumba ya Opulukwa, benki hiyo ilitoa tangazo la kutoa tenda ya kuuza nyumba hiyo, ambalo lilitolewa kwenye gazeti la serikali Januari 10,2011.

Hata hivyo Opulukwa hakutoa ushirikiano wowote, hali  iliyosababisha benki ya TIB kuipiga mnada nyumba hiyo na kufanikiwa kupata mteja, ambaye aliinunua kihalali ikiwa ni pamoja na kubadilisha hati miliki ya nyumba hiyo.

Jambo la kushangaza Opulukwa aliendelea kuishi ndani ya nyumba hiyo, TIB ilifanya harakati za kumtoa kwa kuyatumia makampuni kadhaa ya udalali ambayo yalishindwa kufanikisha kazi hiyo na ndipo Machi mwaka huu, jukumu hilo la kumtoa Opulukwa lilipelekwa kwa kampuni ya udalali ya Msama Auction Mart.

Baada ya Kampuni ya Msama Auction Mart kufanya taratibu zake za kikazi na kuridhishwa na uwepo wa deni husika, Juni 8, mwaka huu ilifika eneo la tukio na kuanza kumtoa Opulukwa.

Hata hivyo zoezi hilo lilikuwa gumu kutokana na baadhi ya maofisa wa Polisi wa Wilaya ya Kinondoni kuingilia kati, ambapo waliitisha kikao cha pamoja kati ya maofisa wa kampuni ya Msama Auction Mart na Opulukwa, ambapo maamuzi yalikuwa ni kusimamisha zoezi hilo hadi pale mkopaji huyo atakapopata baraka za Mahakama juu ya uhalali wa kuendelea kuishi kwenye nyumba hiyo.

Baada ya maamuzi hayo ya jeshi la polisi, Opulukwa alifungua kesi ya madai ya kuvunjiwa nyumba yake na kuibiwa vifaa vyenye thamani ya shiringi 195 milioni, jambo ambalo halikuwa na ukweli wowote.

Juni 11, mwaka huu mara baada ya Opulukwa kukosa vielelezo vilivyompa uhalali wa kuendelea kuishi ndani ya nyumba hiyo kama alivyoagizwa na Mkuu wa Polisi wilaya Kinondoni, kampuni ya Msama Auction Mart iliendelea na zoezi la kumuondoa.

Wakati maofisa wa kampuni ya Msama Auction Mart wakiwa na uhakika wa kukamilisha zoezi lao pamoja na kuondoka eneo hilo,ghafla walipigiwa simu na walinzi walioachwa kwenye eneo hilo kuwa kuna mtu yupo ndani ya nyumba, ambaye inaelezwa aliruka ukuta ili kufanikisha lengo lake.

Hatua hiyo ya Hazelina iliwashangaza maofisa wa Msama Auction Mart, ambao walichukua jukumu la kupiga simu polisi ili kuhakikisha mama huyo anaondolewa kwa njia ya amani na utulivu.

Wakati huo tayari Hazelina alikuwa ameshapanda juu ya paa la nyumba hiyo, huku akitishia kujirusha ili kuutoa uhai wake endapo angetolewa kwa nguvu.

Aidha alikwenda mbali zaidi kwa kuvua nguo ili kuonesha utupu wake, lengo lake likiwa ni kutowapa nafasi walinzi wa kiume kutomsogelea.

Hatua ya mama huyu kuonesha utupu wake na kuendelea kukaa juu ya paa la nyumba hiyo ilizua maswali na kuwafanya baadhi ya waandishi wa Habari kufika eneo hilo ili kujua ukweli wa mambo.

Kutokana na kauli za uongo za mama huyo, alifanikisha   kuwaaminisha waandishi wa habari kuwa kuna hila zinafanyika ili kupora nyumba yake, ambayo alidai kuwa ni halali yao.

Hata hivyo maamuzi ya mama huyo kuendelea kukaa juu ya paa la nyumba hiyo, yalidumu kwa muda wa siku mbili, ambapo Juni 13, mchana kwa hiyari yake aliamua kushuka baada ya kumuona jamaa yake akiwa ameshikilia karatasi zilizodaiwa kuwa zimetoka Mahakama ya Kinondoni.

Uchunguzi wa wetu umebaini kuwa Opulukwa hakumueleza ukweli mama huyo, ambapo ukweli halisi wa zoezi zima la kuhamishwa kwenye nyumba hiyo analijua.

Aidha imebainika kuwa mwanamama huyo si mke wa Opulukwa, kwani mke wake halali anajulikana kwa jina la Rachel Paulo Ng’wahi, amabaye ndiye aliyefungua kesi ya kupinga hatua ya mume wake kutumia nyumba yao kumuwekea dhamana ya mkopo rafiki yake ambaye ni mmiliki wa kampuni ya Asasu.

Ukweli ni kwamba benki ya TIB na kampuni ya Msama Auction Mart, walikuwa sahihi kumuondoa Opulukwa kwenye nyumba hiyo, hakuna sheria yeyote waliyoivunja  na hawakuwa na nia ovu ya kutaka kumpora mama huyo  na Opulukwa aliyedai kuwa ni mumewe nyumba kama alivyodai kwenye vyombo vya habari.

Chanzo" Mpekuzi. 

WABUNGE 4 WATIWA NGUVUNI NA POLISI KWA VULUGU ZILIZO TOKEA YADAIWA WAO NI CHANZO!!

Moja ya eneo ambalo lilikumbwa na shambulizi la bomu mjini Arusha Hili ni Kanisa Katoliki

Vurugu zimeendelea mjini Arusha ambapo jana polisi wamelazimika kutumia mabomu ya machozi kudhibiti mikutano ya hadhara kufuatia polisi kutangaza kutokuwepo kwa mikusanyiko ili kuimarisha usalama kufuatia mlipuko wa pili uliotokea mjini Arusha, baada ya mtu asiyejulikana kurusha bomu katika mkutano wa kisiasa

Wabunge wanne wa CHADEMA jana wametiwa mbaroni kwa tuhuma za kufanya mkusanyiko bila kibali ambapo viongozi hao wa chama cha upinzani cha CHADEMA walikusanyika katika eneo lililotyokea mlipuko wa bomu la viwanja vya Soweto kwa malengo ya kutaka kufanya mkutano

Wabunge wanaoshikiliwa na polisi ni Tundu Lissu,Said Arfi , Joyce Mukuya mustafa Akoonay ambapo kamanda wa polisi mkoani Arusha Liberatus Sabas amethibitisha kukamatwa kwa wabunge hao.
Hata hivyo kuna madai kuwa baadhi ya viongozi wengine wa chama cha Chadema wanasakwa na POLISI, wabunge hao wanatuhumiwa kuwahamasisha wafuasi wao kuwashambulia polisi kwa mawe wakati walipotakiwa kuondoka katika viwanja hivyo kwa hiari.
aidha polisi pia imekitaka chama cha CHADEMA kuwasilisha kile ilichodai kuwa ni ushahidi wa mtu aliyehusika na urushaji wa bomu hilo
Kwa mujibu wa taarifa za polisi, inadaiwa kuwa bomu lililorushwa katika mkusanyiko huo lilitengenezwa nchini China. Kiongozi wa harakati dhidi ya tukio hilo Paul Chagonja amesema polisi wako tayari kupokea ushahidi kutoka kwa viongozi hao wa kisiasa wanaodai wana taarifa za mtu huyo aliye husika
Jana pia kumetokea vurugu kwa kile kilichodaiwa ni baada ya polisi kuzuia mkutano mwingine wa hadhara uliokuwa ukilenga kutaka kufanya ibada ya mazishi.

UPDATES

 Wabunge wa chadema ndio wanapelekwa mahakamani muda huu.

Ni Tundu lissu, mustafa Akonay, na mbunge na makamu mwenyekiti bara mzee Said Arfi pamoja na Joyce Mukya,

• Mashtaka ni mkusanyiko usio kuwa halali

• Zaidi ya watu 70 pia wamepelekwa mahakamani kwa makosa ya kukusanyika bila kibali.

Kibanda afunguka kwa mashaka mashaka huku akizania tuhuma juu ya CHADEMA!

Mnamkumbuka mhariri ABSALOM KIBANDA? AMBAE ALITEKWA NA KUTESWA?, amesema yafuatayo kuhusu wahusika ambao walimfanyia vitendo hivyo vya kinyama ambavyo vimempa ulemavu wa kudumu wa jicho lake. Nanukuu;

"Acha niliseme hili jamani pengine moyo wangu utatulia. Mmoja wa watu walio nishambulia ana fanana kwa sura na umbile la Ludovick Rwezaura yule kada wa CHADEMA aliyewekwa ndani na Lwakatare ambae nimemuona kupitia magazeti na mitandao ya kijamii. Nimeshangazwa sana mtu huyu yupo karibu na baadhi ya wahariri wenzangu na hata msaidizi wangu bwana Ansbert Ngurumo, bado napata shaka ni kuwa watu wana fanana au?"

My take;

Ndugu Ludovick ambae kwa sasa bado yupo mahabusu, alikuwa ni mfanyakazi wa CHADEMA makao makuu, chini ya kurugenzi ya ULINZI na USALAMA kabla ya kukutwa na mkasa wake ambao ndio umemuweka rumande mpaka hivi sasa. Kuwepo kwa kijana huyu kwenye hii kurugenzi na maelezo ya bwana Kibanda nadhani mnaweza ku-connect dots Wasomaji wetu.

CHADEMA ukweli ni kwamba mwaka 2013 umekuwa mwaka 'tasa' kwenu, kwani mikakati mingi ya kichama imekuwa ikibuma na mbaya zaidi ni pale mpaka siri za ndani ya chama kuzagaa mitaani, haya yote ya kubuma na kuvuja kwa siri ovyo ovyo hivi, kuna sababishwa na 'uchanga' wenu katika kusimamia shughuli za kichama, mna safari ndefu sana.

1. She has lots of close male friends - A significant number of affairs begin as close friendships with members of the opposite s-éx. The relationship may be platonic at the beginning, but chances are, it won’t stay that way. The closer the woman is to her platonic male friend, the more likely it is that he will eventually end up becoming her lover – unless he’s gay.
2. She has girlfriends who are cheating on their mates. - Never underestimate the power of peer pressure. Adults are susceptible to it, too. If a woman has one or more close female friends who are cheating on their husbands or boyfriends, she may eventually start cheating, too.
3. She has an excessive need for attention. – A woman who constantly craves attention may cheat on her mate if she feels she’s not getting enough attention from him. She will be easy prey for any man who showers with her the attention she feels she deserves.
4. She’s materialistic. - A materialistic woman is likely to have an affair with a wealthy man because of the material things he can provide. She can easily be seduced with jewelry, designer clothes, lavish vacations, or the cash to buy these and other expensive things.
5. She views s-éx as a statement of her femininity. - Her identity as a woman is tied to how many men she sleeps with. Seducing men to sleep with her is the focal point of her life. With this mental attitude, it’s hard for her to stay faithful to just one man.
6. She’s a thrill seeker or a risk taker. - If she’s the type who likes to live dangerously, she’ll cheat just for the thrill of it, or for the excitement of doing something forbidden, or for the challenge of seeing if she can pull it off without getting caught. She views infidelity as other people would view a high-risk sport.
7. She’s easily bored. – A woman who is easily bored, or who leads a dull, routine life may cheat on her mate just to alleviate her boredom or add some excitement to her life.
8. She has been cheated on by her mate. – If a woman’s husband or boyfriend has cheated on her, she may try to even the score by cheating on him in return. Many women who have been victims of infidelity will indulge in retaliatory cheating or have revenge affairs.
9. She likes being the center of attention. – If a woman thrives on being the center of attention at all times, she is s-éxually vulnerable to any man who fawns over her, or makes her feel like she’s #1
10. She’s addicted to alcohol or drugs. – Women who are substance abusers are much more likely to end up cheating on their mates. Female alcoholics are susceptible to infidelity because their inhibitions will be lowered and their judgment impaired. Female drug addicts may sell their bodies for drugs. Either type of woman is likely to cheat without realizing what she’s doing.
11. She has a reputation as a “party girl.” - If she’s the type of woman who runs with a fast crowd, or parties all the time, or hangs out until the wee hours of the night, her lifestyle makes her vulnerable to having an affair.
12. She’s a s-éx addict. - Women can be s-éx addicts, too. It’s an addiction that affects at least 6% of the American population. In the past these women were referred to as nymphomaniacs. This is a medical condition that requires professional medical help.
13. She has a s-éx drive greater than her partner’s. – If her s-éx drive greatly exceeds the s-éx drive of her husband or boyfriend, or her spouse or significant other is lacking in bedroom skills, she’s much more likely to cheat on her mate. She’ll find another man to make up for her mate’s deficiency.
14. She’s had lots of s-éxual experience. - If she has led a very active s-éx life, or has had lots of s-éx partners before settling down, she will find it extremely difficult to stay faithful to just one man.
15. She cheated before and got away with it. - That old saying “ Once a cheater, always a cheater will apply if she cheated in the past and didn’t suffer any negative consequences as a result of her infidelity. If she cheated before and didn’t get caught, she’s more likely to cheat again. The same applies if she cheated and her man readily forgave her without holding her accountable for her infidelity.
16. She has a big ego. - If she’s extremely egotistic, any man who feeds her inflated ego can easily get her into bed.
17. She suffers from low self esteem. - The opposite characteristic is also a danger sign. If she suffers from low-self esteem, she will be easy prey for the man who flatters her, makes her feel good about herself, and boosts her self esteem. 
18. She views s-éx as a game. In her mind, s-éx is not connected to love. S-éx is just a game in which she gets points for every man she beds. Even though she may be in love with her partner, she’ll have s-éx with as many men as possible so she can gain the maximum number of points and win the game.
The more of the above categories your wife or girlfriend fits into, the more likely it is that she will cheat on you. - See more at: http://nyumbayahabari.blogspot.com/2013/06/18-categories-of-women-most-likely-to.html#sthash.d2Yq6eWH.dpuf

1. She has lots of close male friends - A significant number of affairs begin as close friendships with members of the opposite s-éx. The relationship may be platonic at the beginning, but chances are, it won’t stay that way. The closer the woman is to her platonic male friend, the more likely it is that he will eventually end up becoming her lover – unless he’s gay.
2. She has girlfriends who are cheating on their mates. - Never underestimate the power of peer pressure. Adults are susceptible to it, too. If a woman has one or more close female friends who are cheating on their husbands or boyfriends, she may eventually start cheating, too.
3. She has an excessive need for attention. – A woman who constantly craves attention may cheat on her mate if she feels she’s not getting enough attention from him. She will be easy prey for any man who showers with her the attention she feels she deserves.
4. She’s materialistic. - A materialistic woman is likely to have an affair with a wealthy man because of the material things he can provide. She can easily be seduced with jewelry, designer clothes, lavish vacations, or the cash to buy these and other expensive things.
5. She views s-éx as a statement of her femininity. - Her identity as a woman is tied to how many men she sleeps with. Seducing men to sleep with her is the focal point of her life. With this mental attitude, it’s hard for her to stay faithful to just one man.
6. She’s a thrill seeker or a risk taker. - If she’s the type who likes to live dangerously, she’ll cheat just for the thrill of it, or for the excitement of doing something forbidden, or for the challenge of seeing if she can pull it off without getting caught. She views infidelity as other people would view a high-risk sport.
7. She’s easily bored. – A woman who is easily bored, or who leads a dull, routine life may cheat on her mate just to alleviate her boredom or add some excitement to her life.
8. She has been cheated on by her mate. – If a woman’s husband or boyfriend has cheated on her, she may try to even the score by cheating on him in return. Many women who have been victims of infidelity will indulge in retaliatory cheating or have revenge affairs.
9. She likes being the center of attention. – If a woman thrives on being the center of attention at all times, she is s-éxually vulnerable to any man who fawns over her, or makes her feel like she’s #1
10. She’s addicted to alcohol or drugs. – Women who are substance abusers are much more likely to end up cheating on their mates. Female alcoholics are susceptible to infidelity because their inhibitions will be lowered and their judgment impaired. Female drug addicts may sell their bodies for drugs. Either type of woman is likely to cheat without realizing what she’s doing.
11. She has a reputation as a “party girl.” - If she’s the type of woman who runs with a fast crowd, or parties all the time, or hangs out until the wee hours of the night, her lifestyle makes her vulnerable to having an affair.
12. She’s a s-éx addict. - Women can be s-éx addicts, too. It’s an addiction that affects at least 6% of the American population. In the past these women were referred to as nymphomaniacs. This is a medical condition that requires professional medical help.
13. She has a s-éx drive greater than her partner’s. – If her s-éx drive greatly exceeds the s-éx drive of her husband or boyfriend, or her spouse or significant other is lacking in bedroom skills, she’s much more likely to cheat on her mate. She’ll find another man to make up for her mate’s deficiency.
14. She’s had lots of s-éxual experience. - If she has led a very active s-éx life, or has had lots of s-éx partners before settling down, she will find it extremely difficult to stay faithful to just one man.
15. She cheated before and got away with it. - That old saying “ Once a cheater, always a cheater will apply if she cheated in the past and didn’t suffer any negative consequences as a result of her infidelity. If she cheated before and didn’t get caught, she’s more likely to cheat again. The same applies if she cheated and her man readily forgave her without holding her accountable for her infidelity.
16. She has a big ego. - If she’s extremely egotistic, any man who feeds her inflated ego can easily get her into bed.
17. She suffers from low self esteem. - The opposite characteristic is also a danger sign. If she suffers from low-self esteem, she will be easy prey for the man who flatters her, makes her feel good about herself, and boosts her self esteem. 
18. She views s-éx as a game. In her mind, s-éx is not connected to love. S-éx is just a game in which she gets points for every man she beds. Even though she may be in love with her partner, she’ll have s-éx with as many men as possible so she can gain the maximum number of points and win the game.
The more of the above categories your wife or girlfriend fits into, the more likely it is that she will cheat on you. - See more at: http://nyumbayahabari.blogspot.com/2013/06/18-categories-of-women-most-likely-to.html#sthash.d2Yq6eWH.dpuf

We have all been cheated on, lied to, taken advantage of and otherwise treated shabbily by those who lack integrity, honesty, moral decency, gainful employment or good hygiene.

One of the most common questions asked within both the widowed and divorced communities is, “When is it appropriate to start dating again?” The quick answer is, “Only you can make that determination.”
However, there is a far more important question that not many people ask — and it is a vital question; one that is far more important that that of “appropriateness” and a question that you absolutelymust ask of yourself prior to dating post-loss or post-divorce:j
“Am I even READY to begin dating again?” Have you asked yourself that question? If not, you should… and then review the following 10 ways to hel determine your dating readiness:

1. You Have Reclaimed You 
During what may very well be the worst or most challenging time in your life is not the time to jump headlong back into dating. Like it or not, you must first recover from the divorce from or death of your spouse and you cannot accomplish that kind of recovery in hurry-up fashion. Embrace the fact that you are not the same person that you were when you committed to the person no longer by your side and that you must take the time and patience with yourself to sufficiently recover from the trauma that you have endured. In other words, you must truly get to know the person that you are today, right now, this minute.

2. You Realize That You Are “Not Guilty”
When you have been functioning in life as one-half of a couple, you understandably become conditioned to thinking of yourself in those terms. Whether by divorce or by spousal death, you are now on your own; yet your emotional being is still in the “one-half of a couple” mindset. When you subsequently find yourself attracted to someone or you make a decision to resume dating, you may feel guilty, as if you are “cheating” on your ex or late spouse.
(…And your children and your spouse’s family and your friends and the world at large.)
While feelings of guilt are perfectly normal, that same guilt can unnecessarily hold you back. You are entitled to live a life filled with happiness and if you choose it, that happiness can and should include another love by your side. You must realize and accept that there is no reason to feel guilty about dating and/or seeking companionship once again.

3. The Absence of Anger
It is absolutely normal to feel angry at whatever circumstances ended your relationship. For example, you are likely to be angry with an ex-spouse who was abusive or unfaithful. You may likely be angry at the circumstances surrounding your spouse’s death. After all, you are a good person and you did not deserve the pain that you are going through. Sadly however, many choose to stay “in the angry” or “in the bitter” to the point that they are unable or unwilling to move forward from a place of pain to a place of peace. The resolution of lingering anger is an important step before the resumption of dating.

4. The Ability to Leave the “Ghost of Relationship Past”… in the Past
We all tend to have “selective amnesia” when it comes to our previous relationships; remembering only the good in the people no longer in our lives and the wonderful memories that we will have always. That’s fine of course — but don’t use the previous person as a “yardstick” against which you are measuring prospective dates. For example, it is unfair to start sentences with, “Joe always used to…” or “Mary would never have…”, because absolutely nobody “always” did something right or “never” did anything wrong. By all means, honor, keep and treasure the beautiful memories that you have; however, in order to both be fair to and enjoy someone new, you need to be able to put the Ghost of Relationship Past in its proper place.

5. Are You Happy On Your Own?
Are you content with yourself on your own without being one-half of a couple or dependent upon children to fill up your time? This means a life that is yours alone; a life that is individually gratifying in its own right. Do you have your own career, your own hobbies, your own pursuits, your own set of friends with whom you play sports, lunch, drink or dine? When you sincerely enjoyyour life as an individual, you are genuinely ready to begin the dating process again. Rather than simply trying to fill the huge void left by a spouse; you are instead opening your heart to the possibilities of a new relationship that will complement an already-fulfilling life.

6. Can You Go Out Alone and Have Fun?
The companion element to being happy on your own is the ability to go out alone and enjoy yourself. Have you been out to dinner by yourself? How about a movie, a concert or a comedy club? It really isn’t as scary as it sounds. As a society, we are accustomed to either traveling in packs or with a spouse or significant other; however, you must be content with your own company both within your four walls and in the outside world. This contentment will enable you to make wise decisions in your dating choices and when you do choose to introduce someone new into your life, it will be for all of the right reasons.

7. Are You Emotionally Available?
I once dated a man who had not recovered from being broken up with in high school – 30 years earlier. This gentleman made a conscious decision to be emotionally unavailable to anyone else because of one prior bad experience (in high school, no less).
Your emotional availability will have everything to do with two things; the amount of time that you have spent recovering from your divorce or the death of your spouse and your willingness to make yourself emotionally available. Examine yourself carefully and ask yourself if you are capable of making yourself emotionally available to another. If you do not feel quite ready yet, take a step back, remember that “today” does not mean “forever” and take more time out for you.
(…but please don’t take 30 years.)

8. Are You Capable of Trusting Again?
We have all been cheated on, lied to, taken advantage of and otherwise treated shabbily by those who lack integrity, honesty, moral decency, gainful employment or good hygiene. Should you learn from your past experiences in order to avoid repeating history? Definitely. Should you automatically suspect everyone you meet in the future based upon what has happened in the past? Absolutely not. To make the unilateral decision that, “All men lie and cheat” or “All women are gold-digging opportunists” unfairly condemns an entire species because of the actions of a few losers. Do you believe that most people are inherently decent, loyal, loving and are looking for you just as ardently as you are looking for them?
As hard as it may be, and while you certainly should not trust in a blindly haphazard fashion, you must have the ability to trust the people you introduce into your life, rather than judge them on any wrongdoings of those in your past.

9. Are You Allowing Analysis Paralysis to Stop You?
There may be several factors that are holding you back from the resumption of dating. Otherwise known as Analysis Paralysis, these factors may include the fear of experiencing another loss by divorce or death, the fear of intimacy and vulnerability or the fear of being hurt again. It could be something as silly as the “last ten pounds”… because of course, the key to absolute lifelong happiness is the loss of those last 10 pounds.
Back to reality.
Once you have isolated, identified, honestly addressed and moved forward from whatever it is that might be preventing you from dating again, you will then be able to enthusiastically jump into the dating world in a positive way.
And PS: Absolutely no one cares about the last 10 pounds.

10. When You Are Ready… You Truly Will Know
What do you do when the people around you start badgering you to “get back out there”? What do you do when it feels like everyone is trying to push you into dating and you feel like these same people are trying to instead push you over a cliff? How do you cope when it seems like everyone’s very happiness depends on whether or not you permit them to fix you up on Saturday night?
Take the “bruise test”.
Have you ever had a really nasty bruise? What is the first thing you do? You push on it — constantly. In time, it looks like the bruise is cleared up, yet when you push on the spot, it still smarts. Similarly, there is a “bruise” of sorts on your heart that has been left as a result of a painful loss. As with a bruise, push on that spot in your heart from time to time. If it’s still too painful to think about dating again, quit pushing yourself — and don’t allow others to push you either! It just may not be quite time for you to begin dating… yet.
You really will know when the time to begin dating is right, if you simply listen to and trust in yourself — and just as with a bruise, eventually, that tender spot in your heart does heal.
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